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Mar 28, 2014 / 54 notes

puretapwater:

"shower for two". 30 seconds of us in the shower.

I find this incredibly tender. Shout out to the fam I see you.
Mar 21, 2014 / 8 notes

Writing

For the first time in a long time

Happy International Women’s Day
Mar 8, 2014 / 13 notes

Happy International Women’s Day

Hot Cross Buns
Feb 4, 2014 / 37 notes

Hot Cross Buns

Jan 3, 2014 / 29 notes

Im worn out from wanting you to want me as much as I want you 

Jan 1, 2014 / 7 notes

Tis my birthday

Just putting that out there incase you wanna hit the paypal with some $$ lol! Happy new year to each and everyone of you! May this year bring happiness, love, and lots and lots of orgasms

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Dec 26, 2013 / 3 notes

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Impromptu iphone photo shoot with one of the most talented creative minds I know Adrian Hilton
Sole 2013  
Dec 17, 2013 / 16 notes

Impromptu iphone photo shoot with one of the most talented creative minds I know Adrian Hilton

Sole 2013  

In Defense of Beyoncé’s Feminism:
Dear Feminists Hating on Beyoncé, 
Can we stop arguing about whether or not Beyoncé’s album is feminist. Feminism and feminist theory isn’t math, it isn’t biology, or Latin it isn’t static. It is dynamic! Feminism is alive because it speaks to  collective and individual lived experiences. It is a theory and practice that breathes with the times that morphs to fit bodies and cultures and languages. Its theoretical framework is malleable and fluid  bending and moving to embody the changing needs of women while growing and expanding the combat the snake of sexism that continues to weave itself through society. So how DARE you try to kill feminism by trying to compartmentalize it in the coffin of your own beliefs! How dare you repeat the same marginalizing paradigms of oppression by  trying to streamline feminism! How Fucking dare you try to question and downplay the validity of Beyoncé’s feminist expression! So can you stop… just stop… 

Signed 
Solé
Dec 17, 2013 / 23 notes

In Defense of Beyoncé’s Feminism:

Dear Feminists Hating on Beyoncé, 

Can we stop arguing about whether or not Beyoncé’s album is feminist. Feminism and feminist theory isn’t math, it isn’t biology, or Latin it isn’t static. It is dynamic! Feminism is alive because it speaks to  collective and individual lived experiences. It is a theory and practice that breathes with the times that morphs to fit bodies and cultures and languages. Its theoretical framework is malleable and fluid  bending and moving to embody the changing needs of women while growing and expanding the combat the snake of sexism that continues to weave itself through society. So how DARE you try to kill feminism by trying to compartmentalize it in the coffin of your own beliefs! How dare you repeat the same marginalizing paradigms of oppression by  trying to streamline feminism! How Fucking dare you try to question and downplay the validity of Beyoncé’s feminist expression! So can you stop… just stop… 

Signed 
Solé
Dec 15, 2013 / 7 notes

Lessons in Life: #5

boiunbound:

Fear is your access to courage.
So be scared, then be courageous.

- Kai

Currently ranting about bad cunnilingus … join the convo 
Nov 2, 2013 / 33 notes

Currently ranting about bad cunnilingus … join the convo 

Oct 7, 2013 / 34 notes

Fun Fact

I have a pen pal who lives in California that I’ve never met.

We connected because I accidentally misspelled my friend’s email address and ended up sending him my resume/ cover letter/ job application. To my surprise this random stranger responded with suggestions, comments, and edits!  We’ve been pals ever since. 

I don’t know much about him other than he’s 50+, he’s married, he’s pretty well off financially, he’s an architect, he’s white, and he has a young son. 

We live in two completely different worlds, on two different sides of the country, but I’ve never felt closer to a person that I’ve never met. 

His weekly emails are one of the highlights of my week. 

Serendipity in its purest form… 

Self deprecating selfie 
Oct 6, 2013 / 35 notes

Self deprecating selfie 

Oct 6, 2013 / 7 notes

Anonymous asked: On behalf of every misogynistic, hypocritical, no truth tellin' and can't be depended on in times of crisis muthafucka that has ever stained your path, I apologize to you for all of the hurts, let-downs and broken promises you've ever endured. Please accept this in the way that it is offered and may the thought forever keep you away from that rusty edge again. The thought of a spirit as deep and talented as your extinguishing itself, makes me cry. Don't. Just be. Flourish in your truth. Please.

So beautiful. Thank you 

Oct 6, 2013 / 3 notes

blahblahbecky-deactivated201311 asked: Watching you liberate yourself liberated me. I know how I feel about myself as a growing woman. It is nice to feel comfortable about being a female :D !!!! xxxx By the way you looked so good!!! hahaha

<3 I feel truly honored! This is what I set out to do in participating in this series. Hearing this from you lifted my spirits. Thank you thank you thank you